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The Problem With Blamers
The problem with blamers is that they do not desire to take responsibility for their thoughts, feelings and actions. Therefore, the problem with blamers is that they do not desire to be held accountable for their thoughts, feelings and actions as blamers, since they desire to hold everyone, but themselves, accountable.
-Paul Whiting
(a.k.a., Poet, Artist and Philosopher)
"I am the poet who thinks that he knows it!"
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My Writing About A Blame-Free Life: My goal is to create a blame-free life for myself and for everyone else around me! –Paul Whiting (written January 2nd, 2012 and revised September 1st, 2022)
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My Writing About Being A Recovering Blame-A-Holic: Sometimes, I truly feel like I am a recovering "Blame-A-Holic," so to speak, because I honestly feel that I need to keep a constant watch over my negative thoughts in order to not start placing blame upon others whenever I get stressed out! It is practically a full-time job, but I always try to "pull back" blaming thoughts, in my own mind, whenever I have them. And, then, I also try to re-think those negative, blaming thoughts in a positive, responsible way! For, I truly do believe that even simply thinking negative thoughts creates Negative Karma. –Paul Whiting (written May 1st, 2012 and revised September 1st, 2022)
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My Writing About The Disease Of Blame: Blame is a disease of the soul. –Paul Whiting (written October 21st, 2014 and revised September 1st, 2022)
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My Writing About The Problem With Blamers: The problem with blamers is that they do not desire to take responsibility and they do not desire to be held accountable. –Paul Whiting (written March 18th, 2015 revised April 24th, 2022 and revised September 1st, 2022)
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My Writing About Who Blamers Wish To Hold Accountable: Blamers wish to hold everybody else, but themselves, accountable! –Paul Whiting (written March 19th, 2015 and revised September 1st, 2022)
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My One And Only Joke About Blame: I'm addicted to blame and it's all your fault! LOL –Paul Whiting (written April 4th, 2015 revised October 17th, 2015, revised April 24, 2022 and revised September 1st, 2022)
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My Writing About The Problem With Blaming: The problem with blaming in physics is that you are producing "anti-life," because you are literally blaming in a void. –Paul Whiting (written April 16th, 2015 and revised September 1st, 2022)
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My Writing About Who Is To Blame For The Way That You Feel About Yourself: The proverbial "they" are not to blame for the way that you feel about yourself; you are to blame for the way that you feel about yourself! Therefore, do not blame the proverbial "them" for how you feel: instead, figure out what is wrong with you (that is, what are your fears, your insecurities, your mistakes, your flaws, your wrongs, your misgivings, etc.), as a part of the larger process of changing yourself in order for you to do better in the future—and to stop blaming everyone else for how you feel about yourself. –Paul Whiting (written May 20th, 2016, revised September 18th, 2021, revised April 24th, 2022, revised April 25th, 2022 and revised September 1st, 2022)
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My Writing About Who You Are Really Blaming In This Lifetime: When you are blaming others for your thoughts, feelings and actions, you are really blaming yourself in other lifetimes for the way that you feel about yourself in this lifetime. –Paul Whiting (written April 25th, 2022 and revised September 1st, 2022)
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My Writing About Every Soul Who Has Ever Wronged You, Version No. 1: Every soul who has ever wronged you in any way in this lifetime could have only been you in another lifetime. –Paul Whiting (written August 19th, 2023 and revised August 20th, 2023)
My Writing About Every Soul Who Has Ever Wronged You, Version No. 2: Every soul who has ever wronged you in this lifetime in any way could have only been you in another lifetime. –Paul Whiting (written August 19th, 2023 and revised August 20th, 2023)
My Writing About Every Soul Who Has Ever Wronged You, Version No. 3: Every soul who has ever wronged you in any way could have only been you in every way. –Paul Whiting (written August 19th, 2023 and revised August 20th, 2023)
My Writing About Every Soul Who Has Ever Wronged You, Version No. 4: Every soul who has ever wronged you in this lifetime in any way could have only been you in another lifetime in every way. –Paul Whiting (written August 19th, 2023 and revised August 20th, 2023)
My Writing About Every Soul Who Has Ever Wronged You, Version No. 5: Every soul who has ever wronged you in any way in this lifetime could have only been you in every way in another lifetime. –Paul Whiting (written August 19th, 2023 and revised August 20th, 2023)
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My Philosophical Notes:
The reason that I wrote this prose can be summed up with the following statement: "The problem with blamers is that they do not desire to take responsibility and they do not desire to be held accountable."
And this prose was also published on my "Paul Whiting — A Creative Writer" blog (please see the hyperlink below for the blog), since I feel that the message in this prose applies to the message that I am trying to convey through "Paul Whiting — A Creative Writer."
This prose was written in Portland, Oregon.
-Paulee
https://paulwhitingwriting.blogspot.com
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This "Poet, Artist and Philosopher" Post No. 072 was edited on May 11th, 2024.
"Prose is using all of the words that are necessary in order to describe all that is necessary to describe." –Paul Whiting [June 1st, 2022]
